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Life Through Touch: The Intertwined Miracles of Faith and Resurrection
Matthew 9:18–25
18. While he told these things to them, behold, a ruler came and worshiped him, saying, “My daughter has just died, but come and lay your hand on her, and she will live.” 19. Jesus got up and followed him, as did his disciples. 20. Behold, a woman who had a discharge of blood for twelve years came behind him, and touched the fringe of his garment; 21. for she said within herself, “If I just touch his garment, I will be made well.” 22. But Jesus, turning around and seeing her, said, “Daughter, cheer up! Your faith has made you well.” And the woman was made well from that hour. 23. When Jesus came into the ruler’s house and saw the flute players and the crowd in noisy disorder, 24. he said to them, “Make room, because the girl isn’t dead, but sleeping.” They were ridiculing him. 25. But when the crowd was sent out, he entered in, took her by the hand, and the girl arose.
Quick Context
A synagogue leader comes to Jesus because his daughter has just died, begging him to come restore her. On the way, a woman who has been bleeding for twelve years secretly touches Jesus' cloak, hoping just that contact will heal her. Jesus responds to both — healing the woman publicly and then raising the girl from death.
Key Insight
Jesus doesn't treat these two interruptions as separate errands — healing the woman on the way IS part of his mission to raise the girl, not a delay from it. Both people reach him through physical contact and faith, not qualifications or status. The woman is an outcast reaching out in secret; the ruler is a leader coming in open desperation — yet Jesus meets both the same way. His touch, which should have made him unclean by the law, instead brings life and wholeness to whoever reaches for it.
Discussion Questions
- 1.What details stand out to you in how the woman approaches Jesus versus how the ruler approaches him?
- 2.Jesus calls the healed woman 'Daughter' — the only time he uses that word for an adult woman in the Gospels. Why might that detail matter?
- 3.The crowd laughs at Jesus when he says the girl is 'sleeping, not dead.' What does their reaction reveal about how they understood what was happening?
- 4.The commentary notes that healing the woman wasn't a detour from Jesus' mission to the girl — it WAS the mission. Where in your own life do you tend to see 'interruptions' instead of part of the purpose?
- 5.The woman waited twelve years and still reached out, even in shame. Is there an area of your life where you've stopped reaching out to God because you feel it's too late, too embarrassing, or too far gone?
- 6.The ruler came to Jesus only after the worst had already happened. What does it mean to you that Jesus got up immediately and went with him anyway?
- 7.Where in your own life or in the sacraments do you experience that 'hem of the garment' moment — a tangible point of contact with Jesus?
Leader Notes
- •Matthew compresses this story compared to Mark and Luke — in Matthew the daughter is already dead when the ruler first approaches, which sharpens the point that he's asking for resurrection, not healing.
- •The woman's bleeding made her ritually unclean, meaning she couldn't touch others without making them unclean too — her reaching out took real courage and desperation, not just hope.
- •If the group gets stuck on the 'sleeping, not dead' line, clarify it's not a medical claim — it's Jesus redefining what death even means in his presence.
- •Don't let the discussion stay purely historical — steer toward the application questions, since the real power of this passage is in noticing where people hold back from reaching out to Jesus.
- •If conversation stalls on the 'Daughter' title, point out it signals the woman being welcomed back into belonging, not just physically cured — healing and reconnection go together here.