Catholic Commentary
Closing: Hope for a Personal Visit
13I had many things to write to you, but I am unwilling to write to you with ink and pen;14but I hope to see you soon. Then we will speak face to face. Peace be to you. The friends greet you. Greet the friends by name.
In 3 John 1:13–14, the Elder declines to write extensively by letter, choosing instead to rely on future face-to-face conversation. He views direct spoken communication as a superior means of pastoral care and fellowship, reflecting a Johannine convention that values personal encounter over written correspondence.
Some truths cannot survive the distance between you and a screen—they require the presence of your body and theirs.
Taken together, these two verses form a chiastic pair: the insufficiency of the written medium (v.13) gives way to the sufficiency of the spoken, face-to-face encounter (v.14). The letter itself becomes an arrow pointing toward the meeting it anticipates.
Catholic tradition uniquely illuminates this passage at several levels.
The Living Voice and Sacred Tradition. The Elder's preference for viva voce — the living voice — over the written word is a patristic touchstone for the Catholic understanding of Sacred Tradition. Papias of Hierapolis (c. 60–130 AD), a disciple of John himself, famously stated: "I did not suppose that information from books would help me so much as the word of a living and surviving voice." This is not a rejection of Scripture but a recognition that divine revelation reaches its fullness in the living transmission of the Church — what the Second Vatican Council's Dei Verbum §8 calls Tradition as the living, ever-present stream by which "the Church, in her teaching, life, and worship, perpetuates and hands on to all generations all that she herself is, all that she believes." The written text of Scripture is itself carried within and by this living Tradition.
Personal Encounter and the Theology of Communion. The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches that "God himself is an eternal exchange of love, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and he has destined us to share in that exchange" (CCC §221). John's longing to speak face to face echoes the deepest structure of Christian life: we are made not for mere information transfer but for communion. St. Augustine writes in De Doctrina Christiana that signs — including written words — exist to lead us toward the realities they signify, never to replace those realities. The letter points to the visit; the visit points to the eternal face-to-face vision of God.
Eschatological Resonance. Paul's use of the same "face to face" idiom in 1 Corinthians 13:12 ("now we see as through a glass darkly, but then face to face") gives these verses their deepest register. All human face-to-face encounter, in Catholic mystical theology, is a provisional image of the visio beatifica — the beatific vision — in which we shall know God as He knows us. Every genuine personal encounter in Christian community is thus a sacramental anticipation of heaven.
In an age saturated with digital communication — texts, emails, social media — 3 John 13–14 speaks with startling directness. Catholics today face a genuine temptation to substitute virtual presence for real presence: to maintain friendships entirely through screens, to "attend" Mass via livestream as a permanent preference, to offer pastoral care through a quick text rather than a visit.
John's refusal to write more than necessary is a quiet rebuke to that tendency. He does not say written communication is bad — he is, after all, writing a letter — but he insists that it is incomplete. Some things require the body: the shared glance, the handshake, the meal together, the prayer spoken aloud in one another's presence.
For Catholics specifically, this has liturgical implications. The Eucharist — the summit of Catholic life — is irreducibly a physical, communal, embodied act. You cannot receive Communion through a screen. The mystery of the Incarnation commits Christianity to flesh, presence, and encounter. Practically: make the visit you have been postponing. Have the conversation you have been conducting by text. Show up, in person, to those who need you. The Elder's brevity with ink is an invitation to generosity with presence.
Commentary
3 John 1:13 — "I had many things to write to you, but I am unwilling to write to you with ink and pen"
The phrase "I had many things to write" (Greek: polla eichon grapsai) uses the imperfect tense, signaling an ongoing, accumulating store of things the Elder wishes to convey — not a single thought but a wealth of pastoral concern, correction, encouragement, and teaching that has been pressing upon him. The deliberate restraint is striking: he could write more, but he consciously refuses to do so. The Greek ou thelō — "I am not willing" — is a strong volitional negation, not merely "I cannot" but "I choose not to." This is a purposeful decision, not an inconvenience.
The word pairing "ink and pen" (melanos kai kalamou) is vivid and concrete. Kalamos refers to a reed pen, the standard writing instrument of the Greco-Roman world, cut at an angle and dipped in melas, a dark ink made from soot or carbon. John invokes the very materiality of written communication — the scratch of reed on papyrus, the permanence of dried ink — only to declare it insufficient. Writing, for all its power to traverse distance, is here acknowledged as a medium of limitation. It preserves words but cannot carry tone, expression, gaze, or the living breath of the speaker. This is not anti-intellectual; it is a recognition of the hierarchy of communication modes in Christian community.
The closing of 3 John closely mirrors 2 John 12, where the identical formula appears almost word for word. This structural parallel is significant: it suggests a deliberate literary and pastoral convention in the Johannine community — the letter as a temporary, preparatory instrument that always points beyond itself toward living encounter.
3 John 1:14 — "But I hope to see you soon. Then we will speak face to face"
"I hope" (elpizō) here carries genuine theological weight. In the New Testament, hope is never mere optimism; it is a confident expectation grounded in God's providential ordering of events. The Elder does not say "I plan" or "I intend" but "I hope," implying that the visit is desired and anticipated but lies ultimately in God's hands — a quiet act of Christian humility about the future (cf. Jas 4:13–15).
The climactic phrase "face to face" (stoma pros stoma, literally "mouth to mouth") is deeply resonant. It recalls the language used of Moses in Numbers 12:8, where God says He speaks with Moses "mouth to mouth, plainly and not in riddles." In the Greek Old Testament (LXX), this same idiom marks the most intimate form of divine-human communication. John applies it here to the pastoral relationship between two Christians, suggesting that genuine human encounter participates in — and images — the directness of divine communication. The living word spoken between persons has a dignity the written word, however valuable, cannot fully replicate.