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Things of Which One Should Not Be Ashamed
1Don’t be ashamed of these things, and don’t sin to save face:2of the law of the Most High and his covenant, of judgment to do justice to the ungodly,3of reckoning with a partner and with travellers, of a gift from the inheritance of friends,4of exactness of scales and weights, of getting much or little,5of bargaining dealing with merchants, of frequent correction of children, and of making the back of an evil slave to bleed.6A seal is good where an evil wife is. Where there are many hands, lock things up.7Whatever you hand over, let it be by number and weight. In giving and receiving, let all be in writing.8Don’t be ashamed to instruct the unwise and foolish, and one of extreme old age who contends with those who are young. So you will be well instructed indeed and approved in the sight of every living man.
Justice and integrity look petty only to those afraid of losing something more important than truth.
Ben Sira catalogs a series of everyday situations — legal, commercial, domestic, and pedagogical — in which a person might be tempted to cut corners or look the other way for the sake of social approval. Against that temptation, he insists that fidelity to the law, precision in business, firmness in household governance, and candid instruction of others are not causes for embarrassment but marks of wisdom. The passage is a practical manual of courageous integrity rooted in Torah observance and fear of the Lord.
Verse 1 — The governing principle: Ben Sira opens with a direct command that reverses the normal social calculus. The "sin to save face" (Greek: hamartanein with the sense of missing the mark to preserve one's standing) names a very human temptation: the fear of appearing petty, strict, or unkind causes people to act unjustly or negligently. This verse is the heading for the list that follows and also forms a counterpart to the preceding section (41:17–42:8), where Ben Sira listed things of which one should be ashamed. The structure is deliberately pedagogical: wisdom requires knowing both what merits shame and what does not.
Verse 2 — Torah and covenant first: The list begins not with commerce but with religion. One must never be ashamed of "the law of the Most High and his covenant" — that is, of the Mosaic Torah as the binding charter of Israel's relationship with God. The word "covenant" (diathēkē in Greek; berît in Hebrew) anchors the whole list in salvation history. Even the judicial act of holding the ungodly accountable is framed as covenant fidelity, not personal vengeance. For Ben Sira, law and justice are expressions of divine love, not bureaucratic burdens.
Verse 3 — Commercial and personal reckoning: "Reckoning with a partner and with travellers" addresses the practical settling of accounts, the kind of uncomfortable conversation about money that many people avoid to preserve social harmony. Ben Sira says: do not be ashamed of it. Similarly, clarifying one's inheritance from friends — ensuring that gifts and legacies are fairly distributed — is an act of justice, not greed. The wise person does not let false modesty become a cover for disorder.
Verse 4 — Accuracy in weights and measures: This verse echoes one of the most repeated injunctions of the Hebrew prophets and Torah (Leviticus 19:35–36; Proverbs 11:1; Amos 8:5). The honest use of scales is not merely good business practice; it is a moral act rooted in the conviction that God himself is the standard of all measure. Getting "much or little" honestly is preferable to getting a false amount. The repetition of this theme across the whole biblical corpus signals its theological weight.
Verse 5 — Merchants, children, and slaves: The mention of "bargaining with merchants" normalizes what might seem unseemly — hard negotiation is not dishonest, and one need not be ashamed of it. More striking is the counsel to correct children "frequently" and, in its historical context, to physically discipline a wicked slave. The modern reader must understand this within the ancient Near Eastern legal and household framework; the sense points to the legitimacy — and indeed the obligation — of firm, consistent discipline in the formation of those in one's care. The Fathers consistently read "correction" as a figure for the soul's need of divine chastisement (cf. Hebrews 12:6).
Catholic tradition illuminates this passage in several distinct ways.
First, Ben Sira's list is a sustained meditation on the virtue of justice (iustitia), which the Catechism defines as "the moral virtue that consists in the constant and firm will to give their due to God and neighbor" (CCC 1807). Nearly every item in the list — accurate weights, written contracts, honest reckoning — is an exercise of commutative justice, which "requires the restitution of goods stolen or unjustly acquired" (CCC 2412) and the sanctity of contracts.
Second, the passage engages the virtue of courage (fortitudo) in its social dimension. St. Thomas Aquinas, following Aristotle, recognized that the fear of social shame (verecundia) can become a vice when it leads one to abandon right action (Summa Theologiae II-II, q. 144). Ben Sira's "do not be ashamed" is precisely an instruction in this social courage — what Aquinas would call the ordering of shame by the virtue of modesty rightly understood.
Third, the Church Fathers read the correction of children and servants as a figure for the soul's education by God. St. John Chrysostom, commenting on similar Siracan texts, insisted that spiritual fathers bear responsibility for the souls in their charge just as householders bear responsibility for their households (Homilies on Matthew, 59). The Second Vatican Council's Gravissimum Educationis (1965) echoes this, affirming that parents hold the primary duty of educating children in virtue.
Finally, the grounding of all these instructions in "the law of the Most High and his covenant" (v. 2) anticipates the Catholic understanding that moral law is not opposed to covenant love but flows from it — a point developed by John Paul II in Veritatis Splendor (1993), which argues that the commandments are a gift, not a burden (VS §12).
In an age of social media performance and pervasive "reputation management," Ben Sira's counsel lands with unusual force. Catholics today face precisely the pressures he identifies: the embarrassment of being seen as rigidly rule-following when one insists on the terms of a contract; the social awkwardness of correcting a child firmly in public; the discomfort of holding an employee or business partner accountable. The fear of being perceived as ungenerous, uptight, or unkind drives many people to quietly absorb injustice or abandon their responsibilities.
This passage is an invitation to examine conscience not around obvious sins but around the subtle dishonesty of omission — the invoice you left vague to avoid a conflict, the child's behavior you ignored because correction felt harsh, the false modesty that let an injustice slide. Ben Sira reminds us that such evasions are not kindness; they are failures of justice and love. A practical response: before any significant financial transaction, ask whether it is documented and fair to all parties. Before declining to correct someone under your care, ask whether the reluctance is wisdom or cowardice.
Verse 6 — Safeguarding the household: The advice about a "seal" (lock) for a difficult wife and locked storage where many workers are present is bluntly pragmatic. Read literally, it reflects ancient household management where the paterfamilias bore responsibility for order and prudent stewardship of goods. Read spiritually, the "sealing" of what is precious against corruption and theft resonates with the soul's need to guard its interior life against the many forces that would dissipate it.
Verse 7 — Written records as justice: "Let all be in writing" is a principle that protects all parties. It is not distrust; it is an act of justice that makes accountability possible. In the Catholic natural law tradition, the ordering of human transactions by clear, verifiable agreement reflects the rational nature of the human person made in God's image.
Verse 8 — Teaching without embarrassment: The list closes where it began — with the courage to speak truth, here in the form of instruction. Ben Sira specifically mentions the "unwise and foolish" and the elderly man who quarrels with the young: those who are hard to teach. The willingness to correct such people, even when it is awkward, is not arrogance but charity. "So you will be well instructed indeed" — the teacher who overcomes the shame of correction is himself perfected by the act.